The shift from dating to hooking up in college
We had some turmoil in between and I thought I wouldn’t hear from him again.Then he initiated contact saying that he’s happy we are still friends and we kind of talked on and off for another week or so. Especially the ones where the girl was speaking with you and then suddenly stopped, (I really hate that—for the women readers). Wait one year, then go back and re-read your text messages. Sarcasm doesn’t translate well through texting (unless you’re me.) If she liked you enough to give you her contact, just make it happen–propose a meet “Hey. It could be a picnic with Pringles and Heineken, or shopping for fishing lures.
To build on that, if we feel that you are acting in a way that is intended to make us chase, we’ll remember it. On the other hand, a woman who has a total wall up will not get guys to chase her. My honest advice on texting and social media is:– Don’t, “try,” to be funny. It looks needy.)-It doesn’t matter what the date is. Also, understand that the universe is random and many especially younger women lack the confidence to go direct and say, “Thank you, but I’m just not interested right now.” I really wish they would be straighter with us…but such is life. Just make it fun.– Realize most girls probably won’t meet up with you no matter what you say. Women go by their emotions, so if you make them pee their pants with laughter, they might be curious enough to meet you. There are so many more, at the mall, the go go bar.