Informative speech on online dating
But when struggling to do something, such as find a job, it is important to know what your chances are, so that you do not become demoralized after repeated disappointments. They do not mean that such efforts are doomed to failure.
Studies show that of those submitting resumes in response to an advertised job opening, only two percent will receive an invitation to visit the prospective employer!
Most people who reach these objectives only do so after repeated attempts. They never have to deal with the awful feelings of unrequited love.
They have never been jilted or disappointed over and over again by meeting one unsatisfactory person after another.
I do not know of any reliable statistics about this matter, but the figures I give below approximate the way these dating situations are likely to progress: If you are really serious about dating, you join three or four dating sites.
Some of these marriages have lasted and seem to be happy.
Still, this arrangement worked out well enough for us to have showed up very many generations later. If the first half-dozen first dates are unsuccessful, it does not mean that you are unappealing or that you are too picky.
Unless you are extraordinarily lucky, the first ten or twenty people you meet—or thirty or forty—are not likely to constitute a good fit to you.
They have never experienced the difficult problem of turning away a suitor without hurting his/her feelings.
Similarly, they have avoided getting their own feelings hurt when they were the one who was being rejected.